On Public Morals – Two Sources

What kind of moral values are acceptable in the public square?

It’s an important question in the current political climate, already rife with discord between liberals and conservatives, and now thrown into a kind of perpetual chaos by an unpredictable president.

On the one hand President Trump seems willing to flout traditional public morality and moral norms in both behavior and speech, and on the other he derives power from Christian evangelical base who would like to see their version of morality imposed upon the culture at large (and who see liberals as trying to do the same.)

So whose version of morality wins? By what standard are we going to determine which morals are acceptable in public life, i.e. as grounds for policy and legislation and the formation of a public shared understanding of our civic responsibility? Is there a way to talk about all of these values in a way that a majority of people (and not just a bare 51%) would support?

In conversations with conservative friends, I have had the strange sensation of ships passing in the night. We try to talk about the same subject but drift off into separate spheres quickly, because our value narratives are so different as to be almost alien.

For example, one person recently said the “values of human dignity found in the Bible” supported a capitalist, market-driven economy in the exchange of goods and fair accrual of money according to one’s work. I reacted with some sense of befuddlement, and only later realized why: I was confused because I think of the value of “human dignity” as a universal religious value, not a sectarian or an exclusively Christian one.

What my friend said in support of a Bible-based society, in other words, was actually not a statement about the Bible. It was a statement of agreement with a concept (in this case, human dignity). He was conflating the two–Bible and dignity–as though belief in the one entailed belief in the other.

But the Bible does not always treat people with dignity (I’m thinking in particular of the victims of genocide at the hands of God’s people in Joshua, the lack of condemnation of slavery in both Old and New Testament, and the language about unbelievers going to eternal suffering and damnation spoken by Jesus, to name three examples). But leaving that fact aside and assuming “human dignity” is a value indeed found in the Bible, does that mean that our source concept “human dignity” is exclusively biblical or Christian?

I don’t think so. To the extent that we follow rules of fairness and dignity as a capitalist society it is not because those values are found in the Bible, but rather because they resonate as universal values that are accessible by everyone.

Such conversations with conservatives about values led me to compose the following premise, in an effort to clarify where some common ground might lie between liberals and conservatives:

PREMISE: Public moral values, i.e. values that can transcend the personal, private sphere and become an acceptable source of common discourse in the public square, must be a) secular, based on non-religious reasoning, or b) universalist, based on what is accepted by all religions.

In some cases such public values will overlap with both a) and b).

This premise, if accepted, would accomplish at least three things:

  1. Establishment of common ground on which to build arguments that can be heard by all sides, because they are based in values and values language universally recognized.
  2. Prevention of publicly sectarian, divisive language that only seeks to judge those outside on the basis of narrow morals
  3. Recognition of the source of many national ideals we hold as being secular, and thus attaching a sense of morality to that which is secular in origin.

As long as liberals and conservatives are deriving our sense of public morality differently from each other, and at the same time have no way of adjudicating that discussion, no method or framework for deciding the outcome, we will lapse into condemnation and vilification. Rather than build and support our society together, we will simply build our own towers of hubris and overconfidence.

Seeking consensus on secular and universalist values is not only a necessary step to any lasting and meaningful dialogue, it is a way to re-assert a rational process into a highly charged political environment and bring it to a healthier place. Could a more robust secular, universalist reasoning be the answer to what ails us?

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On Prudence

Emphasis on prudence is characteristic of liberalism. It is connected with the rise of capitalism, for the prudent became rich while the imprudent became or remained poor. It is connected also with certain forms of Protestant piety: virtue with a view to heaven is psychologically very analogous to saving with a view to investment.  -Bertrand Russell, A History of Western Philosophy

Prudence is one of the classical virtues. It means to take care, with forethought, of one’s actions. It is associated with business and sound money management, as in, “Prudential.” Rational judgment, logic, and the harnessing of the will are all components of this virtue. Most of all, it means setting aside short-term pleasure for long-term gain.

In building my teaching business, I have to be very prudent. I carefully plan out every expenditure, to maximize and optimize the resources I have. Every item on my to-do list is carefully organized and executed. In running our household, my wife and I must be diligent about paying bills, populating each other’s calendars with important activities, and doing meal planning. None of these are especially pleasurable activities in themselves, but we are willing to put aside short-term fun and pleasure so that we can do the important things such as taking care of each other and our children.

Prudence is about maturity. As we grow up we all must come to terms with saving money, acting in ways that further our and other’s long term interests. We learn also to behave morally (however we might define that) and this often means sacrificing our own pleasure. Prudence is also a societal virtue. The more we think ahead as a polity (an organized group of people), the better off we are together, and that also requires sacrifices such as setting aside resources in the form of taxes.

However, there is a downside to Prudence. We sometimes have a narrow idea of “Prudence” and use that as a source of continued bias toward the underclasses, the underprivileged, minorities, the arts, and sexuality. We blame others’ misfortunes on their lack of good choices, we marginalize artistic expression because there is no way to measure its costs and benefits, and we repress and under-educate each other about sex because sex threatens our sense of rational control. (There is a reason why the words prudent and prude are connected.)

Bertrand Russell points out that “there is something revolting in a system that regards prudence as the only virtue.” His critique of Prudence, in A History of Western Philosophy, comes in the chapter about John Locke, whose political theories made a heavy mark on our Constitution. Locke’s views came at a time when philosophical liberalism was beginning to bloom. Characteristic of this philosophy were a few things that we would today call “conservative”: belief in commerce and business, general distrust of government, and an aim to encourage a rising middle class.

The fact that these prudent values are connected intrinsically to Protestant piety is important to understand: being frugal with money and frugal with ethics go hand in hand. Aiming at heaven is similar to aiming at a savings account. One pictures Grant Wood’s painting American Gothic: the faces are plain, stern, hard-working, but also unimaginative and unforgiving. 546kjh46kjh

In other words, the reason it is “revolting” to enthrone Prudence as the only virtue is that there are so many other virtues to speak of: forgiveness, empathy, nurture, creativity, courage (in taking risks), to start with a few. These other virtues are humanizing, and lead as much to long-term prosperity and wealth as does prudence.

Whenever I have made a decision that my parents did not agree with, particularly as regards either my artistic expression, or my sexual choices, it was usually because they thought it imprudent. Unwise, showing lack of judgment, especially about money, or about what God really wanted. “This was not God’s will,” my mother said on more than one occasion.

Well into middle-adulthood both my wife and I continue to perceive a very judgmental attitude from family members about our choices. It was not looked upon as prudent for us to have gotten our prior divorces, or be together, to move here or there, to pursue this or that activity, to join the Unitarian Universalist fellowship. The frowns could be seen through the phone.

How many unhappy marriages continue because the couple values prudence above all else? How many artists are now struggling to eat, because banks look at them as an imprudent investment? How many minorities are segregated in ghettos, because it would be imprudent for the rest of us to go live there, work there, or buy anything there? How many people are wasting away in a cubicle because that is the only rational choice they can see in front of them?

Since the time of Locke (late 1600s) we have needed a new ethics that is more generous, less rationalist, and views society through a more complex lens. We need to show why virtues such as Hospitality (opening our homes) and Edification (building up of people) are connected to our long-term interests. We will be a more prosperous and free people if our virtues are balanced, and our understanding of each other continually enriched by a more affective, empathetic approach.

I am not arguing for outright recklessness, anarchy, or destructively senseless behavior. Such things cause pain, violence, or misfortune, sometimes on a large scale. The Iraq war, for example, most people see as in imprudent war, with long-term costs we are still paying for. One wishes for more prudent politicians.

Imprudent political decisions, however, often are made because there are not enough other virtues at play. When we are more able to negotiate, to see the other side, to think in more communitarian ways, we are tapping Empathy. When we truly want everyone to win, we are tapping the virtues of Humility and Compassion. When we celebrate differences, we lift up Diversity.

True long-term reward comes when all of these other virtues are present. If we imagine a painter’s palette, perhaps Prudence is a brilliant hue achieved only by mixing many more primary colors together. This is at once more pleasurable and more wise, more sensual and more rational.

If fulfilling our needs in the short-term and creating a brighter, more hopeful future is possible, why not pursue it? Isn’t that the most Prudent course of action?

 

 

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When Sacrifice Goes Too Far

“We ask God to grant the martyrs his mercy.” —Saudi government official.

Source: CNN.com

Source: CNN.com

I’m sorry, but these aren’t martyrs. These 700+ people are well-intentioned but ignorant religious believers who were killed by a stampeding mob while trying to get to what they believe is the holiest of holy sites.

The Hajj Stampede is but the latest example of how vacuous and pointless it is to rely on “god’s protection” when doing things that he purportedly commanded.

I get it. Pilgrimages are important, we can learn and grow spiritually from doing them. There are many places in the world to go on pilgrimages. A friend of mine went on one in northern Spain, for example. But the situation in Mecca has gotten out of control because of the numbers of people who try to go there. It used to work when no one could get there except by walking. Now millions more have access via air travel to the region.

The worst part is knowing that the Saudi government could do something about it, but they choose not to. Far from accomplishing anything holy, these deaths only illustrate that this senseless, pointless pilgrimage really exists in the minds of the government to fill its coffers.

This is the kind of thing that must slowly, inexorably, de-convert people. If a god commanded a holy pilgrimage, surely he could at least protect his people from this kind of senseless tragedy, protect them from a corrupt government, or at least grant more wisdom to such a government so that they could prevent it from happening again.

My heart is with the families of those who died.

See NYTimes story

 

 

Why Covenants Are More Effective Than Rules

Today I got my first chance at teaching RE (Religious Education) and I was the LEAD teacher (out of a team of 6).

I was tapped to teach 3rd and 4th grade this year by the DRE (Director of Religious Education). I said yes. I am doing this at MUUF (Morristown Unitarian Universalist Fellowship) of Morristown. How’s that for a lot of acronymns?

It has been four years since my exit from the job of leading a Lutheran church. Today I had my first experience of doing real ministry in a long time. I’m grateful that the team of teachers and the DRE trusted me to be the lead teacher, because it gave me a way to rediscover teaching skills that have lain dormant, but also because it felt so good to be part of a teaching team.

The theme for our grade this year is windows and mirrors. We are exploring how we look at ourselves and how we look at others, how the world sees us and how we see it. We are learning how to respect ourselves and everyone else, and how to appreciate everyone’s viewpoint. (These themes nest within the larger purposes of Unitarian Universalism.)

One of the activities was to do an inner and outer portrait, where we cut out pictures from magazines and drew things that represented the way the world sees us, vs. the way we see ourselves.

"Big U Little U." This was our teaching team's attempt at describing the perfect RE teacher. Check out the question mark and the light bulb.

“Big U Little U.” This was our teaching team’s attempt at describing the perfect RE teacher. Check out the question mark and the light bulb.

Great themes. We also did something today that I believe every adult needs to do. We posted a big sheet of paper on the board and in two columns, wrote down COVENANTS and RULES. After a bit of discussion, I was delighted to find that even these 8 and 9 year olds could grasp the difference.

A covenant is a promise, a commitment to a principle, a basis for action. A rule is something we do or follow as a result of wanting to fulfill the covenant. So, for example, one of the children said “Don’t fight.” That’s an excellent rule, but why? Why is it important not to fight? “So that someone doesn’t get their face knocked out,” said one boy. “Yes,” I said, “But why is that important?”

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Theme at MUUF for this year: Building the Beloved Community. Designed by David Snedden.

It took some patient attempts at discussion, but after a time they began to pick up on the idea. Our covenant is to respect each other, and so the rule “don’t fight” helps us to fulfill it. We also have a covenant to be kind, let everyone be heard, and that each person is important. Many times I think we as adults do not give children credit for being able to grasp the rationale behind the rules. It is easier to give rules, to say “just do it this way, because I said so, and shut up.” It is harder and more time consuming to help kids grasp the rationale, the principle, the basis for the rule.

When we respect children’s capability to be internally motivated by a principle, rather than externally motivated by a rule, we really achieve lasting growth. What a gratifying thing it is to see a child grasp a principle, to really take it inside themselves.

Take a GoodMinute

  1. In what way do I live by principles, covenants, and promises? In what areas am I resorting to mere rules?
  2. How does the difference between rules and covenants apply to adult relationships?
  3. How do we end up making rules for each other? What is the payoff of that strategy (such as a feeling of safety)?
  4. How can we help children internalize principles and live by a covenant, rather than blindly following rules?